The essence of this quote is that your happiness and sense of self-worth should not be contingent upon successes or failures, as symbolized by ‘birdies’ or ‘bogeys’ in golf. Birdies, representing successes, and bogeys, representing setbacks, are part of the game, but they don’t define the value of your happiness. This metaphor extends beyond golf; while achievements and challenges are characteristics of life, they should not dictate one’s overall happiness or self-esteem. True contentment and self-worth come from within and are not solely dependent on external outcomes or achievements.
Regardless of your external circumstances, peace and satisfaction don’t come from material conditions but from a relationship with Christ, who gives you the strength to be content in any situation. So again, true contentment and a sense of worth are internal and spiritual, not based on external achievements or possessions.
True security and contentment come from God’s promise to be with us rather than from any worldly possessions or accolades. A profound sense of security and self-worth comes from being loved unconditionally by God, independent of worldly conditions or achievements.
This may seem difficult; however, find joy in challenges, viewing them as opportunities for growth rather than threats to your happiness or self-worth. One’s inner strength and character, developed through overcoming trials, are more important than external circumstances. This perspective offers a way to maintain happiness and a sense of self-worth regardless of life’s ups and downs, focusing on spiritual and personal growth.
To your continued success, may the Lord bless and keep you.